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The 7th year: the one when I can sit back and see how far we’ve come
Seven years - I often feel like the years are a wash, rinse, repeat cycle of ups and downs and laughs and tears and challenges and grief and happiness and firsts and lasts… Life rolling along seems to be that - I’m so used to the rollercoaster of all of it…I forget that what we do isn’t ‘normal’. This last year had a number of times where I was telling people about our life for the first time - and I forget just how much it all is - and I had looks of complete … well, I never
lizmecham
Jan 314 min read


Well hello, again, trauma triggers
I thought I had a pretty good handle on trauma triggers - in the last nearly 7 years I’d identified, worked through, and experienced most of them and believed I did know how to handle them. But apparently not. Apparently needing to seek out medical specialists in Melbourne, need for surgery for a loved one, the juggle of kids and school and doctors … all the things that I’d mastered (ish) during the juggle of 2018 before Pete died but which ultimately are wound up with and ar
lizmecham
Oct 14, 20254 min read


A 20th wedding anniversary alone
20 years ago I got married. 20 years ago we had an epic 5 day Easter weekend of 2005 party that was kicked off when the first guest,...
lizmecham
Mar 30, 20257 min read


A rite of passage: The Conargo Pub
Tonight, now that she is 18, I got to buy my eldest child her first beer on Friday night at Conargo Pub. It is a rite of passage that...
lizmecham
Jan 3, 20257 min read
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